Parents are going to be very anxious to have their children be better and healthier…

Parents are going to be very anxious to have their children be better and healthier…

Ron Says…

“You can count on one thing in Child Dianetics—you can count on two things: that parents are going to be very anxious to have their children be better and healthier; and you can count upon the fact that the parents are only in a limited degree going to take your advice. You can count on those two things. They will remain anxious and they are not going to expedite.

“Therefore, you can expect in all the processing of children, the way to be hard and the work to be long and your patience to be at a very high level and your own imagination to be very good, because you have to have an insight into the problems at hand. You’re going to have to work with a lot less data than you need to solve the problem.

“One little boy came to me one day and couldn’t be processed. I mean just, that’s all, I’d ask a question. Bing. Nothing. And I had to solve the problem—the insight in that case was picked up in the first two minutes of play. ‘Which one of your parents told you they would punish you if you told me anything about their quarreling?’ Tears. Bing.

“’Both of them.’

“How am I supposed to do anything with this kid if the parents tell him he’s not supposed to tell me anything about his home life or their quarrels! Am I supposed to talk about his playing Lone Ranger? Is this going to be the end of it? And come to find out they were quite certain that reading comic books had been responsible for aberrating him.”

L. Ron Hubbard

from lecture
“Child Dianetics—Part II”
8 November 1950

Get the child interested in the real world…

Ron Says…

“So we’ve got this strata by just taking an interest and interesting him in the real world around him and properly defining things. But we have to do that on a companionship basis, not upon an authoritarian basis. If we are crushing this child with data all the time, the data will not be assimilated, it will just be parked in the bullpen where most education resides. In fact, I think most people that graduate from college have still got their whole college education parked over here in the bullpen, it’s not assimilated.

“And every time you start telling this person, ‘The reason you have to know this is simply because we are going to ask you on an examination…’ Well, you’d hardly call that education. That is to say, ‘If you will pick up this data and memorize it and spit it back when we tell you to, you are then educated.’

“Well, in such a wise, you can’t follow this program with a child. What you’ve got to do is get the child interested in the real world.”

L. Ron Hubbard

from lecture
“Child Dianetics—Part II”
8 November 1950

He ‘accidentally’ spills his milk

Ron Says…

“When you give a child something, it’s his. It’s not still yours. Clothes, toys, quarters, what has been givenmust remain under his exclusive control. So he tears up his shirt, wrecks his bed, breaks his fire engine. It’scnone of your business. How would you like to have somebody give you a Christmas present and then tell you, day after day thereafter, what you are to do with it and even punish you if you failed to care for it the way the donor thinks? You’d wreck the donor and ruin that present. You know you would. The child wrecks your nerves when you do it to him. That’s revenge. He cries. He pesters you. He breaks your things. He ‘accidentally’ spills his milk. And he wrecks the possession on purpose about which he is so often cautioned. Why? Because he is fighting for his own self-determinism, his own right to own and make his weight felt on his environment. This ‘possession’ is another channel by which he can be controlled. So he has to fight the possession and the controller.”

L. Ron Hubbard

from Scientology: A New Slant on Life
chapter “How to Live with Children”

If one is sweet enough and if one helps enough…

Ron Says…

“But where this universe at this time is concerned, this universe—at this time—presents an aspect wherein the greatest certainty which can be realized by an individual is that it’s a cruel universe: that he will eat as long as he serves, as long as his force is great enough to meet the situation and he will die when that force is no longer adequate to the problem. And that is very close to the truth.

“Now, we take in this society a little child and we raise them up on sweetness and light, that if you are a good boy and do not employ any force, the society will take care of you and you will have justice and you’ll this—and it’s all love and sweet sympathy.

“Now, just because this kid is living in the middle of a bunch of smoke-filled chimneys and narrow streets in something called ‘culture,’ does not for one moment remove his environment from the environment of the MEST universe, which is, essentially, a cruel, dog-eat-dog universe. In other words, he’s being falsely trained. He’s being trained that he’s living in some kind of a special strata.

“Well, now let’s take an extremity: let’s drop him into the ocean, for a moment, where we have sharks and we will find out that not one shark present will ask whether he is sweet or full of light before he bites. The shark will bite regardless.

“Not one of the acts of charity of this individual will save him for a split instant between the teeth of that shark. What will save him — if he had the force of prying open the jaws of the shark and eating the shark, that would save him.

“So essentially, Man is impractical. In his effort to control his fellows, he has fallen into a very dangerous situation and that situation is ‘that if one is good enough and if one is sweet enough and if one helps enough, he will then be repaid by endless adoration and survival.’ And this is not true. He will not be.

“A man is as good as he can use effort, use force and predict it. And he’s as bad off as he cannot predict, on his own part or on the part of others, effort and force. And that’s about all you can say about it.”

L. Ron Hubbard

from 2nd American Advanced Clinical Course lecture
“Force, Part I”
13 December 1953

…fought at every meal and this kid couldn’t be gotten to eat

Ron Says…

“And these two people, actually in their course of their marital—you wouldn’t call it a passage—a sort of marital misnavigation out in the middle of a hurricane section, quite customarily fought at every meal and this kid couldn’t be gotten to eat. He was starving to death! Food equaled fight, in their lives.

“Papa and Mama would sit down to the table; a nice meal, all right. Papa would start complaining about the food; Mama would complain about how hard she had to work, and it was quite usual and ordinary for them to pick up the crockery and shy it at each other. And not extraordinary for the kid to be hit! And this had been going on ever since this little kid could be moved up to the table. And this kid that should have weighed somewhere around eighty-five pounds was down to about forty-eight pounds and doing very badly. Now, that gives you some sort of an idea of the problem you’re going to run into.

“Childhood is so resilient and children are naturally so healthy that it doesn’t take very much to key out what’s wrong and bring them up to battery again.

“The prescription in this case was merely Straightwire on the first time they quarreled and picking it on up the line. Of course it was all through the prenatal bank, but it keyed out fairly quickly. I’m calling it Straightwire now; well, it didn’t have that technical name at the time, it was just ‘discussion of the matter.’

“And the next thing was to insist that the child be permitted to eat in the kitchen with a closed door.

“And they looked at me, both parents, and they looked daggers! And they said, ‘What has that child been telling you?’ And I could see right away the child was going to be punished. You see the parents were much more anxious to punish this kid than they were to get the kid well, actually!

“And I said, ‘Well, you know, I happen to know that the child can gain considerable in the way of weight if this is done. And I know that if this is done, the child will gain weight. Therefore, in the next couple of weeks the child will gain weight or I call the Humane Society.’ Unanswerable question. That was the end of that. The child gained weight.”

L. Ron Hubbard

from lecture
“Child Dianetics—Part II”
8 November 1950

Clearing “Children”

How much easier and more productive would your life have been if you had achieved the state of Clear in your youth? Well, you can’t go backwards but can create the future (part of the def of the 2D) for your child.

The youngest Clear that we have produced here at Mace-Kingsley was only 13 years old!

LRH talks about auditing kids below:

“But I can tell you this: that if you can give a child a good release, if you can straighten him out, so forth in his early years, you have done a very great deal for him because these are the years in which he learns things and you have made it possible for him to fill his standard banks and to think straight, early enough, so that he has an enormous advantage in life. And wherever you can practice Dianetics on children, by all means do so.”
L. RON HUBBARD
from lecture “Child Dianetics – Part 2” 8 Nov 1950

Preclears wanted!! Mace Kingsley is delivering, NOW, NOW, NOW, the Golden Age of Tech Phase II Bridge up to Clear.

You and your kids can be Cleared in months!! Clearing within months (no longer years) is now a reality!!! (Also remember that the rates of Grade Chart auditing went down as GAT Phase II was released!)

Ron has let us know that kids are thetans and should be audited and Cleared as early as possible!

Help your children free the perfection that is them, their basic personality!

Lets talk about your and your kids’ next steps toward Clear. Call me on my cell at (928) 274-5903.

Much love,
Ken Ferrara
Service Consultant/Registrar
Mace-Kingsley Family Center