In HCOB 23 May 1971R revised 6 December 1974, THE TWO PARTS OF AUDITING, LRH says about auditing: “There are two stages. 1.  Form a communication line 2.  Do something for the pc. “Those are the two distinct stages.  It is something like (1) walking up to the bus and (2) driving off. If you [...]

Today I was noticing how we give life to those things we give attention to. With this thought I also realized that when we give attention to negative things to that degree we create them; when we give attention to positive things to that degree we create them. Everyone can use this data to better [...]

Today I want to write about something that I myself am guilty of to some extent and something I personally am working on.  As it turns out it is something that other families have run into with one or more persons within their family.  The subject is manners. Now growing up, we learn to say [...]

Let’s say you have handled the sleep issue but you are still experiencing tantrums at home. So now let’s look at the next most basic cause of this situation: diet. The next thing I find most “out” that is also the most unknown has to do with diet. Most people I work with have an [...]

OK, today I am going to write about something that we have heard a lot about, all agree with and yet when parents bring their children to see me almost one for one this point is violated.  It is violated in ourselves as well, which I suppose justifies it somewhat.  You can research it anywhere [...]

I want to make a clarification about the type of counseling I do.  I use a very specific, observably workable method of counseling that is directed specifically to improving the abilities of an individual.  The counseling is geared to finding what the goal of the individual is, getting their ideas about what they think they [...]

The definition of invalidation is: refuting or degrading or discrediting or denying something someone else considers to be fact.  Basically it is no attention.  It actually acts as force and is equivalent to being struck. I have seen invalidation take a couple of different forms.  The first is obvious:  Loud outright words and actions that [...]

Today I want to talk about survival and what it is really, the different forms it can take and what it has to do with ourselves and our children. After all “survive” is the dynamic thrust of life. It is what we are doing and accomplishing in every act that we do from the moment [...]

Today I want to write about something that is very personal and important to me. One of the reasons I so love working with the age group 12-25 years old is because of a personal experience I had. As I started my senior year in high school, I started to feel panicked. I knew I [...]

Recently I was thinking of my mom.  I have to tell you – like most kids, my mom and I haven’t always seen eye to eye and we’ve had our run-ins.  But mostly I do, and have always thought my mom is the most amazing woman!  There is not one thing I have seen my [...]