This is a MAJOR CHANGE!Personal Consulting
Mom’s 6-year-old Goes Back To School
Yesterday my 6-year-old daughter went back to school after having had one week off for Spring Break. She and I spent last week together. Normally, after my daughter spends one-on-one time with me for several days, she does not want to go back to school, misses me, cries and really has a hard time being separated from me. But yesterday she was very VGIs and went right into the classroom with no problem—not one word about missing me and not one tear. This is a MAJOR CHANGE! Her teacher also noticed that my daughter seemed much more confident during Spanish class yesterday—she was raising her hand a lot and answering questions that the Spanish teacher had!
I’m very happy with my daughter’s improvement!
G. D. F.
Tears Of JoyParent Hatting, Personal Consulting,
Thought I would share a little win with you. When Sandy left three days ago, the little negative voice inside me said everything will just go back to ‘…’ when she leaves. This morning, I was trying to get Cody ready for school and I heard the shower upstairs (I have always had to give Anthony a bath because he has not shown the ability being a special needs individual to shower). I assumed it was Thomas in the shower. Anthony showered all by himself, got himself completely dressed in the right school clothes, ate by himself and then when I finally walked into the kitchen after putting Cody in the bus, he was feeding the cats and dog and said ‘I an adult now mom.’ I thought I would cry. (Tears of joy of course.)
Thanks for everything. Sandy really helped Thomas and I a lot working with us on reorganizing our life to bring the stress level down. We did an Admin Scale and started an Org Board. Life certainly looks a lot more hopeful!
The Whole Family Helped!!Personal Consulting
Sandy completely handled my son. He is on the Purif now and is doing really well.
He discovered that his friend T. (the one you met) was an SP, and he has not spoken to him since the interview. I think I can still do even more handling with him so that he is more at cause with this relationship.
It is such a relief to have him handled and to have HIM there instead of his dramatizations. I just can’t find the words to say how absolutely fantastic it is to have him handled and doing well.
He is not going to that school anymore. At one of the seminars Sandy did at the house here, there was a Scientologist who is a plumber. My son asked him if he would accept him as an apprentice. He said he would try him out for 3 weeks.
Our daughter had some fantastic wins too. It is so lovely to see the being shining there. We have now put her into an all girls school. She is very proud of herself and I can see she is handling much more now.
My husband did some work with Sandy too. I don’t know what, but he is a lot more at cause now too.
Can’t wait to be with you again.
His friends are willing to have him around againAuditing Services, Personal Consulting,
I Had To Do Something Fast.
I feel that it is time I share my wins with my son after his auditing with his Mace-Kingsley auditor.
Prior to starting with a program with Mace-Kingsley, my son was having difficulty in several areas of his life. He felt like ‘everyone’ hated him and he had no real friends, he was getting into trouble with his teacher and had no interest in going to school anymore (he loved the academics part of school; it was the social atmosphere he was having problems with). At home he was withdrawing from the family arguing with all of us and not wanting to be part of our group. He was completely unwilling to help. As this was not new, and previous attempts to handle him would not stay in, I needed help to find the real why and a handling. Finally, he asked me one day if I ever felt like not being here (on this planet) anymore because there is really nothing I wanted to do. I said no, and he said, ‘Well, I feel that way’. This coming from a 9-year-old made me feel like I just got my insides ripped out.
I knew I had to do something and fast. Luckily, within days, Carol Kingsley came to our city to deliver a Parenting Workshop. I spoke with her for a while and we decided that getting him onto a program with MK was the solution.
During the first intensive there was dramatic change with him. He was happier, he was getting along better with his friends and his teacher. Her assistant also noticed changes in him. And since completing the intro program he is doing fantastic. He is in communication, his friends are willing to have him around again and the affinity between him and his teacher has definitely improved. He is willingly being a part of the family again and completely willing to help. His zest for life is higher than I have ever seen it. The affinity we have for each other is higher than it has ever been.
He began his program months ago and there is NO sign of the situation not being handled. My son thinks his auditor is the greatest being that walks the earth and I am forever grateful for the time and energy put forth by the entire MK team to make this being happy and enjoying life again.
(Mom that runs a school)
He seems to be more ‘himself’Parent Hatting, Personal Consulting,
Higher Tone, Happier, Calmer, More Considerate…
Sandy Mesmer* recently came to our area to audit several children. She was only here for a few days but my son got quite a few sessions from her.
I have noticed that his tone level is higher, he is happier, calmer, more considerate, and more willing and able to do the things he needs to do at home and at school. He seems to be more ‘himself’.
Her hatting of us as parents was very constructive. She verified for us the rightness of the things we were doing correctly and used references to help us see where we could do a better job, using great ARC while doing so. In fact, I blew a false datum I had been given on the subject of parenting which has improved my communication with our son and he is doing much better as a result.
*Sandy Mesmer–Mace-Kingsley Child Auditor
The most theta week of our livesParent Hatting, Personal Consulting,
Best Service Ever!
Hello Dear Friends,
We just spent the most theta week of our lives with Sandy Mesmer at our home!
Thanks so much to all the Mace-Kingsley team for giving us the best service ever received, with concrete and real changes and improvements in our family.