Thought I would share a little win with you. When Sandy left three days ago, the little negative voice inside me said everything will just go back to ‘…’ when she leaves. This morning, I was trying to get Cody ready for school and I heard the shower upstairs (I have always had to give Anthony a bath because he has not shown the ability being a special needs individual to shower). I assumed it was Thomas in the shower. Anthony showered all by himself, got himself completely dressed in the right school clothes, ate by himself and then when I finally walked into the kitchen after putting Cody in the bus, he was feeding the cats and dog and said ‘I an adult now mom.’ I thought I would cry. (Tears of joy of course.)
Thanks for everything. Sandy really helped Thomas and I a lot working with us on reorganizing our life to bring the stress level down. We did an Admin Scale and started an Org Board. Life certainly looks a lot more hopeful!